Reading list: Race, white supremacy, and anti-Black racism in America

James Baldwin quote on light blue background that begins "White people are astounded by Birmingham. / Black people aren't.ā€ and ends with ā€œbetween Birmingham and Los Angeles.ā€

In honor of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, I put together a list of the best writing (and podcast episodes) about white supremacy, race, and anti-Black racism in America that I’ve come across in the past several years. These are pieces that affected me, helped me better understand my own history and our current moment, and made me more equipped to discuss race and racism. They are the things that I most want white people to read.

Canonical texts

These are, to me, the foundational texts for this topic — the things I feel everyone has a duty to not look away from, to read in good faith, to fundamentally get.

The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America's Great Migration by Isabel Wilkerson (Amazon; IndieBound).

The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander (Amazon; IndieBound).

Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond (Amazon; IndieBound).

The Case for Reparations, The Atlantic.

Segregation Now, Pro Publica.

Further reading

Most of you have no idea what Martin Luther King actually did, Daily Kos.
ā€œWhat most people who reference Dr. King seem not to know is how Dr. King actually changed the subjective experience of life in the United States for African Americans. And yeah, I said for African Americans, not for Americans, because his main impact was his effect on the lives of African Americans, not on Americans in general. His main impact was not to make white people nicer or fairer. … He ended the terror of living as a Black person, especially in the south.ā€

The Myth of the Kindly General Lee, The Atlantic.

Ida B. Wells and the Lynching of Black Women, The New York Times.

New Orleans Mayor on Removing Confederate Monuments, Time.

The Justice Department’s stunning report on the Baltimore Police Department, Washington Post.

In Defense of Looting, The New Inquiry.

How Author Timothy Tyson Found the Woman at the Center of the Emmett Till Case, Vanity Fair.

The Shame of College Sports, The Atlantic.
(Read with this article.)

All the Greedy Young Abigail Fishers and Me, Jezebel.

The Impossible Question of Public School Uniforms, Racked.

How Homeownership Became the Engine of American Inequality, The New York Times.

Sally Hemings wasn’t Thomas Jefferson’s mistress. She was his property., Washington Post.

How Many Black People Can You Mourn In One Week?, BuzzFeed.

Strange Fruit in Ferguson, The Nation.

Inside the Trial of Dylann Roof, The New Yorker.

White Liberals Still Don’t Understand White Supremacy, Harper’s Bazaar.

The Truth About Women and White Supremacy, The Cut.

You Owe Me an Apology, ELLE.

Love Needs Fury To Defeat Hate, The Fader.

How We Make Black Girls Grow Up Too Fast, The New York Times.

Addy Walker, American Girl, Paris Review.

We Need to Talk About Digital Blackface in Reaction GIFs, Teen Vogue.

Black, queer, feminist, erased from history: Meet the most important legal scholar you've likely never heard of, Salon.

George Washington Carver, The Black History Monthiest Of Them All, NPR.

Miss Buchanan’s Period of Adjustment, Revisionist History.

The Myth that Busing Failed, The Daily.

Hoodies Up, 30 for 30.

You’ve Got Some Gauls, Serial Season 3.

The Architect of Hollywood, 99% Invisible.
One of my favorites of all time.

For Our White Friends Desiring to Be Allies, Sojourners.
ā€œPrivilege means that you owe a debt. You were born with it. You didn’t ask for it. And you didn’t pay for it either. No one is blaming you for having it. You are lovely, human, and amazing. Being a citizen of a society requires work from everyone within that society. It is up to you whether you choose to acknowledge the work that is yours to do. It is up to you whether you choose to pay this debt and how you choose to do so.ā€

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Just Good Shit: 01.19.20

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Happy long weekend, friends! Here’s what I was up to this week…

Writing

Reading

I finished two very mellow books this week. The first was The Memory Police, which I started back in December. It takes a while to get going, which is why it took me so long to finish it; I actually think it’s better read in one or two sittings where you just power through until it picks up. There were a lot of specific things about it I didn’t love, but I liked the whole, if that makes sense. I read it as a really lovely meditation on loss, grief, aging, and acceptance, but there is also a definite political and/or climate change–related lens. It’s an excellent winter book (reading it while it snowed on Saturday was perfect!) and even though it’s not, like, a tearjerker, it’s a great sad book. (I actually think I would have loved it if I had read it a couple years ago, when I was Extremely Sad.)

The other book I read was Stories of Your Life and Others by Ted Chiang, which is a very gentle sci-fi short story collection. My favorites were ā€œStory of Your Lifeā€ (which is so, so great and also happens to be a good sad read); ā€œHell Is the Absence of Godā€ (loved!); and ā€œSeventy-Two Letters.ā€ The only one I actively disliked was ā€œUnderstand,ā€ which felt like reading the Unabomber’s manifesto.

Also:

Her Sorority Sisters Suspected She Was Pregnant. What Did Emile Weaver Know?, ELLE.
Head’s up that this is a very tragic (and fairly gruesome) story about the death of a newborn.

The Black Moms Who Occupied a Vacant House and Became Icons of the Homelessness Crisis, VICE.

How to Organize Your Workplace Without Getting Caught, VICE.

'Cheer' Is An Incisive Look At Injury, Coaching And Competition, NPR.

After My Dad Died, I Started Sending Him Emails. Months Later, Someone Wrote Back, Glamour.

For Bumble, the Future Isn’t Female, It’s Female Marketing, Bloomberg.

I Remain A ā€œCatfishā€ Queer: On Love, The Midwest, and What We Think We Deserve, Autostraddle.

Meghan Markle visits The Downtown Eastside Women’s Centre in Vancouver, Lainey Gossip.

Directors, Let Your Gay Characters Be Gay, NY Times.

Is This Existential Despair, or Do I Just Need to Drink Some Water?, Elemental.

Listening to

I have had the Clairo album ā€œImmunityā€ on repeat for the past few days; it’s a great match for my cozy January mood (and for all of the above reading).

Have a great Sunday! ā„ļø


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Just Good Shit: 01.12.20

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Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hello! Here’s what I had going on this week…

On the blog

Elsewhere

I was a guest on Minnesota Public Radio this week, talking about how to say no!

Reading

Sussexit: The Timing, Sussexit and ā€œThe Cartelā€, Sussexit: ā€œFinancial Independenceā€, and Sussexit: The Negotiations, Lainey Gossip.

Lainey is the best for all things Harry and Meghan.

Frustrated Retail Workers at Everlane Say They Were Prohibited from Discussing Wages, Working Conditions, VICE.

Netflix's "Cheer" director: Cheerleaders are "the toughest athletes I’ve ever filmed", Salon.

Would You Work for Nothing at Disney? 10,000 Superfans Applied, The New York Times.

How Sheet-Pan Cooking Took Over Instagram, Eater.

Who Gets to Pick Best Actor? Actually, I Do, The New York Times.

Lingua Franca and the rise of the resistance socialite., The Cut.

This One Marriage Story Line Plays on a Loop in My Brain, Vulture.
I can only hear this scene in the Goofy voice now.


Watching & listening to

I watched all of CHEER on Netflix this week and I loved it. I fuck hard with cheerleading stuff, but this six-episode documentary series is exceptional. It’s ultimately a show about trauma and found family and a very specific type of relentlessness, and I wept multiple times. Highly, highly recommend.

I also watched The First Wives’ Club, which I had actually never seen before! What a delight.

At Terri’s absolute insistence, I saw the new Oklahoma! It’s definitely exactly as horny as everyone said it was. I can’t really say whether I liked it or not. But Oklahoma!, as a musical, is too long and the music is not that great. Ultimately, I left feeling exactly like I did after seeing Uncut Gems: feeling like I neither liked it nor disliked it but glad I saw it; definitely recommending it to other people who are interested but not to everyone; thinking ā€œHow can something be both incredibly intense/chaotic but also boring?ā€; and desperate to read everything that has been written about it.

I listened to the D.C. snipers episode of You’re Wrong About, which is really worth your time. It’s completely devastating (and FYI, it deals heavily with domestic abuse) and also incredibly moving in parts. Like, I was crying in public listening to it. Be sure to listen all the way to the end.

And some lighter fare: I’m obsessed with this Family Feud moment, the best cover of ā€œBefore He Cheatsā€, and Puppy Dog (Bouncin' in the Box).

Have a great Sunday! ✨


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'The Art of Showing Up' galleys are here!

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Yesterday I received galleys of The Art of Showing Up! (A galley is a printed, close-to-final version of a book that is sent out to press/reviewers. It’s made of cheaper materials than the final book will be, and might not be printed in full color or have a finalized layout/design.) I had seen the cover design, of course, but there was something about seeing it IRL as an actual book that was entirely different (in a good way).

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I’m feeling very Ahhhhhhh, it’s happening!!! right now. I did two book-adjacent interviews this week, had new headshots taken on Thursday, and then the galleys arrived on Saturday. I definitely had some anxiety last week as the new year kicked off, knowing that 2020 is the year when this book will come out, and feeling very nervous about that fact. May is *just* far enough away to feel like The Great Unknown Future, but it’s also…not that far away at all! I’ll still be essentially the same person in May!!! And showing up is topic that is incredibly close to my heart, so I feel fairly vulnerable putting this into the world.

If you want a sense of what the book is going to be like, here are a few things I’ve written in the past year that either appear in the book or came up when I was researching it:

You can pre-order The Art of Showing Up via the following retailers:


Amazon

Barnes & Noble

Books-a-Million

Indigo
Bookshop

IndieBound

Powell’s

Workman

(If you’re a bookseller, librarian, or reviewer, you can request an e-galley on NetGalley. And if you have other questions about it, you can email Jennifer Hergenroeder.)

By the way, I’ve learned in the past couple months that there will be a UK edition — Jun. 25 is the date I’ve been told — and an audiobook (which I will likely not be voicing myself). I’ve also had quite a few people ask me if I’ll be doing a book tour, and the answer is that in general, that’s not something that most authors do. But I will probably be doing some events in NYC and Brooklyn, along the East Coast, and (I think!) Chicago. Hopefully there will be many! Despite my nerves and general preference for being home, I am really excited about this topic, so I’m really down to talk about it! ✨

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Just Good Shit: 01.05.20

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Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hi! Here’s what I was up to this week…

Reading

I read A Girl Returned, which was…fine. It’s a very quick read (just 160 pages) and it’s well written, but I found the overall subject matter kind of a bummer. It’s a good one to get from the library, I think.

Also:

Australia Is Committing Climate Suicide, The New York Times.
If you’re looking for ways to help, Fire Relief Fund for First Nations Communities and WIRES are two organizations that I donated to.

My Heart Broke. Now What?, ”Hola Papi!.
I loved this.

The Hunt for Mexico’s Heirloom Beans, The New Yorker.

My favorite posts of the decade, Ask a Manager.

We Learned to Write the Way We Talk, The New York Times.

Embrace the Lasagna, Grub Street.

Eating

On Friday, my gf made Alison Roman’s new NYT recipe, Spicy White Bean Stew With Broccoli Rabe, and it’s good! I’m actually going to make it again tonight. I’m also back on my chickpea pasta bullshit.

NYC

I saw Jacqueline Novak’s excellent Get on Your Knees last night, which I highly, highly recommend. (It’s running through January 26.) Afterward, we had a drink at Cubbyhole, and then went to Don Angie and had the delicious lasagna for two. It was a great cozy date night, and I’m still thinking about how smart and funny the show was.

Have a great Sunday! ✨


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The best things I read and wrote in 2019

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Image: Sincerely Media / Unsplash

Happy New Year’s Eve! As we head into 2020, here are some of my favorite things from 2019…

Writing

The best $16 I ever spent: Old Navy pajamas after my husband left, Vox.

How to Say No During Wedding Season, The New York Times.

The Art of Saying No to Invites When You Really Don't Want to Do Something, SELF.

Not Great, Bob! The Case for Actually Being Honest When People Ask How You Are, SELF.

19 Practical Ways To Get Through Your Bad Season, BuzzFeed.

Reading

This year, I read 30 not-for-work books. The best book was Know My Name by Chanel Miller. Other books I loved/recommend: Bad Blood, Educated, Destiny of the Republic, Red, White, & Royal Blue, In the Dream House, and Nothing to See Here.

Also:

The Trauma Floor — The secret lives of Facebook moderators in America, The Verge.

A 4-Year-Old Trapped in a Teenager’s Body, The Cut.

The Night The Lights Went Out, Deadspin.

The Crane Wife, The Paris Review.

The ā€œCancel Cultureā€ Con, The New Republic.

Fifty shades of white: the long fight against racism in romance novels, The Guardian.

'These kids are ticking time bombs': The threat of youth basketball, ESPN.

Suzy Batiz’s Empire of Odor, The New Yorker.

I Accidentally Uncovered a Nationwide Scam on Airbnb, VICE.

Athleisure, barre and kale: the tyranny of the ideal woman, The Guardian.

ā€˜For five years we dreaded every meal’: my infant son’s struggle with food, The Guardian.

My Cousin Was My Hero. Until the Day He Tried to Kill Me., The New York Times.

The Catastrophist, or: On coming out as trans at 37, Vox.

The Pink, n+1.

Dear Internet: The Little Mermaid Also Happens to Be Queer Allegory, LitHub.

The End of Straight, GQ.

No distractions: An NFL veteran opens up on his sexuality, ESPN.

Psycho Analysis, Bookforum.

What It’s Like to Grow Up With More Money Than You’ll Ever Spend, The Cut.

Cal Newport on Why We'll Look Back at Our Smartphones Like Cigarettes, GQ.

How ā€œsoccer girlā€ became the indisputably coolest look, Vox.

We Have Always Lived In Presidential Primary Season: A Half-Assed Activist Post About Getting Through This Shitshow Without Perpetuating Or Tolerating Bad Behavior And Keeping Some Tiny Spark Of Hope Alive, Captain Awkward.

How to Date After a Divorce, Lifehacker.

America Has Never Been So Desperate for Tomato Season, The Atlantic.

Happy reading! ✨

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Just Good Shit: 12.29.19

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Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hi! Just a quick one for you tonight, as my family is in town visiting right now (and I…literally forgot today was Sunday because it’s Romjul). But I’ll be posting all of my favorite reads from this year tomorrow or Tuesday, if you’re interested in those! In the meantime, here’s what I was up to this week…

Reading

This week, I read Winter Storms and Winter Solstice, and really enjoyed them both. I’m very sad there are no more winter Elin books! Then I read Conversations with Friends which I was…extremely not a fan of. It was my least favorite book of 2019, as a matter of fact.

Also:

Where Rent Is $13,500, She Lives Off What’s Left at the Curb, The New York Times.

The Complicated, Problematic Influence of TripAdvisor Restaurant Reviews, Eater.

How Mariah Carey’s ā€˜All I Want for Christmas Is You’ Finally Hit No. 1, The New York Times.

The golden age of kids’ YouTube is over. Good., Vox.

Why Carol Has One of the Most Vibrant Fandoms of Any Queer Film, them.

Girls adored ā€˜Little Women.’ Louisa May Alcott did not., Washington Post.

Lashes, Lashes, Lashes: What It Took to Give the ā€˜Bombshell’ Women the Fox Look, The New York Times.

Odd Job: the professional gift wrapper who’s having a ā€œreally lucrativeā€ holiday season, Vox.

NYC

We saw Derren Brown’s Secret today — Terri nailed the mom in NYC rec yet again! The show is running through January 4, and it’s really delightful; I highly recommend getting tickets if you’re able to go this week! (P.S. Everyone told me to go in not knowing anything/very little about it, and I definitely think that’s the way to go.)

Have a great Sunday! 🌟


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Just Good Shit: 12.22.19

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Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

I truly cannot believe it’s almost Christmas, but here we are! Here’s what I had going on this week…

On the blog

Writing

Reading

This week, I read Winter Street and I am now reading Winter Stroll, which are both from Elin Hildebrand’s four-part series of winter books, and honestly…these books fucking slap. They are just very chill and funny and juicy, and are quickly becoming some of my favorites of hers so far.

Also…

The Terror Queue, The Verge.

Stop Believing in Free Shipping, The Atlantic.

'We Are Treated As Disposable': Everlane's Customer-Service Employees Are Unionizing, VICE.

@Asher_Wolf on what’s going on with the fires in Australia right now.

Home Alone for Christmas? You're Not the Only One., Food52.
ā€A pleasure you suffer, an ailment you enjoy.ā€

Adam Sandler’s Everlasting Shtick, The New York Times Magazine.

The Improbable Insanity of ā€œCatsā€, The New Yorker.

Instagram says hiding ā€˜likes’ isn’t about making more money, Input.

The Year in Canine Curatives, Hazlitt.
I always love reading Hazlitt’s end of year essays.

My Friends Serve Underage Kids Alcohol. Should I Speak Up?, The New York Times.

The Curious Case of Chris Evans’s Sweater in ā€œKnives Outā€, The New Yorker.

The 2019 Hater’s Guide to the Williams-Sonoma Catalog, VICE.

Make Party Cocktails By the Pitcher Rather Than the Glass, Lifehacker.

The Decade in Internet Culture, in 34 Emblematic Posts, New York Magazine.
I fully lost my shit over ā€œthis bewildering TikTok.ā€

Watching

I’ve watched so many things in the past few weeks! I watched the first three episodes of The Morning Show, which is……..not good. (This review perfectly sums up my feelings on it.) I saw Uncut Gems, which is just so chaotic and extremely too much while also being weirdly boring, but I didn’t hate it either. (Kevin Garnett is great in it.) I watched Carol for the first time this weekend (though I’d read the book). And I saw Knives Out, which is fun, and a very good one to see if you’re with family/bored this week.

Have a great Sunday! šŸŽ…


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I would lay down my life for this Hobonichi Techo planner

2020 Hobonichi Techo Cousin planner

I’d been thinking about buying a Hobonichi Techo Cousin planner ($35.04) for two years, so I finally decided to go for it this fall. It’s just such a good planner, and after four years of dot journaling in a Leuchtturm notebook, I’m ready for a little change! I ordered my Hobonichi Techo Cousin back in October, and I’m legitimately looking forward to January 1 so I can start using it.


Here’s the deal with the Hobonichi Techo, from the website:

The Hobonichi Techo is a planner notebook created by staff members of the website Hobo Nikkan Itoi Shinbun, shortened as Hobonichi. Techo (pronounced ā€œtetch-ohā€) is a Japanese word for a planner notebook. We also describe the Hobonichi Techo as a Life Book; it demonstrates the planner notebook’s versatility and freedom that accommodates every user’s unique personality and lifestyle. It first came out as a 2002 edition, which was created when the members — who weren’t professional planner designers — decided to get together and create a brand new kind of planner that they would actually want to use themselves. There are 18 years of history behind the current book. New varieties have appeared over the years in response to customer requests, and all the techos improve every year based on these requests and feedback. New cover designs are released every year so that using a Hobonichi Techo carries an extra sense of excitement and enjoyment. In recent years people from all over the world have begun to use the techo — there are now over 780,000 users worldwide!

I was able to look at several different Hobonichi Techo planners back in late 2017, and the Cousin was my personal favorite. (It was also my favorite of all of the planners I looked at in 2017, and I looked at…a fuckton of planners that year.) It’s more guided than a dot journal — but not annoyingly so — and really nails both form and function.

I highly recommend going to the Cousin’s About section and clicking through all of the different tabs to see/read about the features, because there are a lot of them! But here are some of the things I like about it, if you’re curious…

Size

The Cousin (the A5) is the biggest of all of the Techo planners, but isn’t huge…it’s 5.8ā€ x 8.3ā€, so it’s fairly close in size to the Leuchtturm I’ve been using for years. It is the perfect size for me.

If you want a smaller planner, the original Hobonichi Techo (A6) ($20.02) is also good. (You can also buy the original on Amazon.) I actually bought the original by accident because I got confused when I was placing my order. (One way to remember which one is which: the Cousin is the big one, much like Cousin Greg is the big one on Succession.) While the original is perfectly nice (and my girlfriend is happy to take it off my hands), I prefer one with more room to write on each day, aka the Cousin.

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The paper

Ugh, this notebook. I just love it! The paper is super thin and smooth and feels so luxurious. The journal also has layflat binding (which means it will easily lay open/flat on your desk).

The cream-colored cover is lovely, and even though it’s super lightweight, it’s surprisingly durable. (I tried bending the corners of the sample one I received, and couldn’t.) You can also buy a cover for it, but I didn’t go that route; instead, I bought a mesh pouch at McNally Jackson to transport it in.

There are different colors of ink used throughout the journal (the daily pages for each month are printed in a different color, for example) but the colors still feel fairly neutral. Also, a lot of the grids and other details are designed to be guidelines that you can only see up close (similar to the dots in a dot grid journal), so those are printed in a fairly light ink.


The page design

So, the big difference between this planner and the dot journaling method is that the Cousin is pre-printed. So, the pages come with dates and other information already on them, and each day gets its own page. There is also a year-at-glance view, monthly calendar pages, a spot for goals/tasks each month, weekly pages (with an hourly breakdown that I like a lot), and then the daily pages. This isn’t ideal if you want to be able to write really long journal entries some days, or to add in a new spread about, say, your favorite books wherever you feel like it. But it’s great if you want something convenient that is kind of doing the work for you, and/or you don’t mind when your journal or planner bosses you around a little bit.

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I tend to be way too picky to enjoy pre-designed daily pages, but in this case, they are designed so well and so thoughtfully that I really like them. There’s an hourly breakdown on the left side of the page if you want to use it (but that’s easy to ignore), and then there is space on the right where you can list tasks/to-dos. (There is also a light ā€œinvisible lineā€ down the middle that you can use to separate the two if you want to.) And there is space at the bottom for journaling/notes. You can also use the daily pages as a sketchbook or regular journal…like, you can just kind of easily write or doodle over the printed page designs if you want.

Features

The Cousin has several thoughtful/cute touches throughout that I love, including the moon phase on each daily page; subtle color tabs for each month of the year; a mini monthly calendar every two pages; and a ā€œwarm up pageā€ at the beginning where you can reflect on the past year/set the tone of the new year. In the back of the notebook, there is blank graph paper; a ā€œFavoritesā€ page where you can document your favorite songs, movies, books, purchases, etc.; and a ā€œMy 100ā€ page that you can use for anything you want (wins, top moments, goals, favorites, etc.).

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Another thing people seem to love about these planners is that they have a quote on each page. This is actually not my thing, but it’s sort of moot because in the Cousin, all the quotes are in Japanese, so I can’t read them.

Shopping

I will say that the Hobonichi Techo website is a tad hard to navigate, in part because there some choices to be made: you have to figure out which planner you want, and whether you’d like the week starts to start on Sunday or Monday. You can also buy the Cousin Avec, where you get two notebooks that each last six months instead of one notebook for the whole year. And if you want to pick out a cover, there are a lot of options.

Once you make your selection, you’ll get routed to a different interface to purchase, and you’ll have to make sure it’s all in USD. It’s also not the most user friendly, but it’s also not prohibitively difficult to use. And both notebooks I ordered arrived very quickly (especially considering that they were shipping from Japan).

TL;DR: The Hobonichi Techo Cousin planner is super elegant and well-designed, and I am very excited to start using mine in January! Buy the 2020 Cousin for $35.04. šŸ—“

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Just Good Shit: 12.15.19

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Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Happy Sunday! Here’s what I’ve got for you this week…

On the blog

Writing

From the archives

Reading

The Age of Instagram Face, The New Yorker.

A Beginner's Guide to Hosting Family for the Holidays Without Melting Down, VICE.

Why Is It So Shocking That Someone Would Love a Fat Person?, Glamour.

How High Can High-Waisted Pants Go?, The New Yorker.

Add Bitters to Royal Icing for Better Christmas Cookies, Lifehacker.

ā€œAttention undergrads: many of you have not yet gotten to know your neighborhood librarians,ā€ Dr. Nedda Mehdizadeh on Twitter.

Before and After: This Rental Kitchen DIY Is the Best Thing on the Internet, Apartment Therapy.
This look so good!

Update: talking about my pregnancy at work when I’m placing the baby for adoption, Ask a Manager.
Cry warning.

TIL why it gets so quiet when it snows, Reddit.

Just Save Some Parties for January, The Cut.
This is absolutely correct.

NYC

On Friday night, some friends and I gathered together for a holiday dinner/drinks at Alameda, and then decided to go across the street to The Springs for more drinks. The Springs was…incredible. It was completely decked out for Christmas (lights everywhere, TVs playing yule logs over every booth) and everyone there was dressed to the theme. (Outfits ranged from festive sweaters to full on nativity scene costumes.) Te DJ was playing great music and everyone was dancing. It was such a good vibe, it felt like crashing someone’s excellent holiday party (and stumbling across it felt like Christmas/New York magic). Turns out, it’s their annual Ho Ho Holiday Lounge. If you are in the area and want a good festive time between now and January 1, I highly recommend it!

Have a great Sunday! ✨

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